A recent study by the American Psychological Association (APA) on “Hook up Culture” found that kids as young as 13 view the culture as the norm for dating today. Here’s StayHipp’s guide to some of the unique ways millennials and Gen Zers date, as well as the words they use to talk about it.

HOLLA is a social and dating app that pairs users with strangers for real-time video chats.

Lipsi is an anonymous feedback app that allows users to send anonymous messages to friends or strangers.

Big Mouth is an animated cartoon series that captures the experience of being a teenager and going through puberty, including all the nitty-gritty vulgar details.