Age play is a kink where consenting adults roleplay being a different age, usually younger than they are in real life.
Deep Dive
- What it is: An umbrella for dynamics where at least one partner adopts a younger persona. This can be purely platonic and SFW, like cozy caretaking or comfort rituals, or explicitly sexual within negotiated BDSM dynamics.
- Common formats: Caregiver or little pairings, sometimes labeled CGL. Some communities use acronyms like DDLG. Meanings vary by person and scene.
- What it is not: It never involves real minors. Participants are adults, and any depiction or involvement of actual minors is abusive and illegal.
Boundaries and safety
- Consent first: Discuss limits, triggers, and expectations.
- Set signals: Agree on safewords and check in during play.
- Aftercare: De-role and reconnect, especially if scenes were intense.
- Privacy: Decide what stays private versus what can be shared online.
Community notes
Definitions differ across kink spaces, and labels can be controversial. When in doubt, ask partners what a term means to them, and respect individual boundaries.
Related terms
CGL (caregiver or little), DDLG (used by some for a caregiver or little dynamic), ABDL (adult baby or diaper lover, adult only, can be SFW or NSFW depending on context)
Bottom line
Age play is roleplay between adults. Clear consent, communication, and boundaries keep it safe, while the exact style and labels depend on the people involved.